If you don't end up better than your Father, respectfully you are a foolish man!
Some of our fathers hurt our mothers, perhaps they were blinded by a culture that enslaved women and made them almost worthless. You know better and should act better.
I know you grew up hating dysfunctional men. You detested those who abused women and who ran down their families for the pleasure of libido but now you must show that you are different.
Who is influencing you?
If you are not accountable to your wife about where you are and when you come home, and you think she has no right to ask or feel bad about your freelance habit, you are not a husband, you are a plague!
Only foolish men place friends above their wives! That kind of man is lost, childish and doesn't know the value of marriage.
Why always her? Is there a covenant in the marriage vows that everything that goes wrong at home is her fault? Why are you nagging about everything when you barely lift a finger at home? Are you wicked to your wife?
Sounds harsh but a lot of men are out rightly inconsiderate, self-centred and arrogantly 'above the law' at home!
You have no regard for your wife's jealousy emotion in how you take women but she can't even handshake a man. Aren't you double standard?
When you come home 'terror has arrived' and you feel you are in control, you don't know what it means to be a man! You are a cover, not a monster!
When you found, chased and proposed to her, she was worth everything so much that you took her to the altar and married her. If you stop the chase, you will think she has lost the charm!
Your woman's emotional state is a reflection of your capacity to manage your simple business of loving her. If marriage frustrates her, you are basically a failure!
Your wife is human, has emotions and is not a piece of furniture!
Your wife is afraid of you and you feel that validates your manhood? You are simply put as a 'bad man'. Be nice, loveable and in charge without tormenting everyone around.
Man up! A real man prays for his family. He is a pillar his wife and children can run to. He stands strong and his family can count on him.
Guy no side chick will satisfy you. Do you realize that you have gone beyond cheating on your wife and you are now cheating even the side chick? Discipline is what God intended for you, embrace it.
If your wife ends up with the pains of your mother, you are regressing and living in the past!
Your head is blank and you are confused! You are not so bad but you actually lack knowledge. Drop your pride; marriage is better than you have had it. Humble yourself and accept knowledge, in fact, chase it and refresh your life!